Saturday, 19 January 2013

Snow!

When we moved into our new house in Bedford last year, our lovely land-lords informed us that
                                                                  "it never snows in Stagsden"

OK, so Katie was disappointed, me too if I'm honest. Who doesn't love the snow?
I am pleased to say our neighbours were wrong!
Of course, this has meant the country has come to a standstill....but doesn't it look so pretty?

Thursday, 17 January 2013

Happy Birthday Mam

Mam loved her Fancy-Dress costumes....all hand-mad of course!
Happy Birthday Mam.
My mam would have been 68 years old yesterday. She has been gone almost 10 years, so she was only just 59 when she died. So young.

I thought of you on your Birthday Mam. I have thought of you every single day since you left us.
I thought of you with fondness yesterday. on your Birthday. I remembered how you loved a party_any excuse to get dressed up in some hilarious fancy-dress outfit ; usually one you had made yourself from recycled clothes on your trusty old Singer sewing machine! You loved that old machine, and my childhood memories often play along to the sound-track of that Singer whirring away in the background. I would watch you in fascination as your foot pedalled away on the wrought iron pedal, the needle pounding precariously close to your fingers as the material whizzed with lightening speed through your fingers!

I wonder how we would have celebrated this birthday? I wonder how you would be with the grand-children you never met. I bet you would have them in fits of laughter with your antics! I feel so sad that you have missed so much of our children's lives and I am even sadder that I have missed having my mam around all these years,
I dearly want to believe I will see you again one day Mam. The thought that I might not, is heart-breaking. I can't get my head around it. So, just for now, I choose to believe in Heaven.

Tuesday, 8 January 2013

Happy New Year!

2013!
Dave, Katie and I saw the New Year in, just the three of us (four if you count Morkie Maisie!!)
We treated ourselves to delicious nibbles, copious wine, and Dave even had a Bacardi or two!
We counted down together as Big-Ben saw out the old year and hailed in the New and we watched the fabulous firework display in London, from the comfort of our sofa.


We are already a week into the New Year and it reminds me how quickly time moves on.

Things are still quiet on the HE front: our regular classes don't start up 'til later in January. That's not to say we haven't been busy though!
Piano lessons have resumed and I am really impressed at how Katie has thrown herself into her music_ next Christmas she will be playing us Carols!
Beth, Katie's piano teacher is lovely, and I am sure it's down to her being so encouraging that Katie is putting in so much effort and hard work. She practices two or three times a day and I must admit to loving the sound of the piano!

We plan to carry on HEing this year in the same fashion_ have fun, talk lots, read lots, visit some interesting places and.... we may just fit in the odd lesson here and there!

Thursday, 27 December 2012

Family and Christmas

We spent a lovely weekend up North. Seeing my family again after all this time was amazing! It was just like old times standing in mam's kitchen, siblings all around and hot-dogs on the table! The only person missing of course was my mam.

It's coming up 10 years since she left us, but we all still miss her so much. The overwhelming pain at losing her has dulled over the years, but the memories and the longing to see her are still as fresh as ever. It makes me so sad that she never got to meet Katie, her grand-son Leon and ofcourse, her great grandson, Charlie. She would have gathered them up in her arms and showered them with kisses the way she used to do.

There has not been one single day when I have not thought of my mam, sometimes with sadness but more often with fondness. I guess that is how it will be for the rest of my life, but that fills me with comfort ; my mam will forever be in my heart.

Seeing Dad again was lovely. He is 5 years older of course, and his health has deteriorated of late. I feel so bad that I have left it so long, but I have promised to visit more often in the future. Anyway, the drive to Newcastle didn't take as long as we anticipated, so I have no excuse!

Dave met up with his boys and we all went Christmas shopping at the Metrocentre and then had a superb meal at a lovely Japanese restaurant.
Katie at the Metrocentre
Shopping with her Big Brother


Christmas Day was just the four of us (including Turkey-loving Maisie!) We opened our presents around the tree and had a delicious Christmas Dinner. Later we settled to watch Christmas TV, surrounded by chocolates and Baileys and a whole lot of love!... Perfect!
Unwrapping Presents!

Thursday, 20 December 2012

Ginger-Bread House, another Birthday and Christmas


Finally finished the ginger-bread house! It's very PINK and smells delicious and I am kind of pleased with it

Katie  is now nine years old! Wow...I don't know where the time goes. We are so proud of her; she is the sweetest, funniest and little girl!

Dave was working away for Katie's birthday, so she opened her presents and blew out her candles the day before, when Dave was around to see her excitement and eat birthday cake!It was that, or wait until the day after her birthday when Dave would be back home, but it was just a step too far to ask an excited and impatient almost nine year old to post-pone her birthday for one day!
Maisie's licking Katie's feet while she opens her pressies1


Happy Birthday Katie!

Me and my Girl!

On the actual day of her birthday, Katie and I took  ourselves off to Jaime's house for the day. It was lovely seeing gorgeous little Charlie and we all had fun at Space Kingdom in Clacton.

Things are much more quiet for us now that the Christmas Holidays are upon us.The last few weeks have been hectic, We have had our usual Science, French and Art classes at Moulsoe, piano lessons, Christmas Concert, Christmas Party, Cinderella at MK theatre, and this weekend we are off to Newcastle to see family before Christmas!

We will get back home Christmas Eve, and hopefully have a relaxing, quiet Christmas Day.

Katie Loves Music at Moulsoe
 
Ah...this is what a Science lesson looks like!
Happy Christmas!


Sunday, 2 December 2012

Christmas is coming!

It's that time of year again : frosty mornings, robins in the garden and twinkling lights in the shops...
Christmas!

Now I have been known to say "Shovlins Love Christmas" and we do; however it is so incredibly busy in the shops already and I am starting to feel the pressure to find those perfect presents!
Milton Keynes Centre is pouring with people, the car-parks are over-flowing and my poor feet are aching! Katie and I have spent hours and walked miles whilst searching for Christmas Presents. Just when you find what you want it's not available in the right size, or the right colour, or the right price!I have been feeling so stressed and tired and frustrated. This is not what Christmas is about! So, I have vowed to shop online from now on (from the comfort of my sofa) Let's see how that goes!

The tree(s) are up and decorated and the ginger-bread cookies have been baked and are hanging from the branches of our "home-made" tree.
Last year our cheeky little dog Maisie helped herself to a couple of ginger-bread men hanging from the lower branches of the tree. We won't be making that mistake again! Must remember to hang sweet smelling delicious cookies from the upper branches.......Sorry Maisie!



Ginger Bread Cookie Tree
We still need to make our ginger-bread house. I have all the ingredients, including LOTS of pink candy. Katie and I were planning to get baking this weekend. However, a stinking cold (me) has put paid to that..... Just waiting for poor Katie to catch the cold now!

We were busy as usual last week. We had music and rehearsals for the Christmas Concert at Moulsoe, piano lessons in Bucks, Sublime Science Sessions where Katie mad slime and sherbet and other exploding stuff!! We visited "Hazard Alley" in MK which was really great!







Katie made sherbet...FIZZY sherbet!!


Katie attended her first Brownie meet in Great Denham and so far she is enthusiastic! She has promised to help more around the house, including cooking and walking Maisie, as part of her "helping hand" Brownie Promise.
Cute Brownie!
Piano lessons are going well. Katie seems to have a talent and she loves her teacher, Bethan. She loves practicing on her keyboard at home. Unfortuately, Dave like practicing too!

We are heading up to Newcastle just before Christmas. Dave is looking forward to seeing his boys and I am looking forward to seeing family I haven't seen in a long time. Let's hope this rotten cold is long gone by then!













Friday, 16 November 2012

London


Today I can't walk! Perhaps that's a slight exaggeration ; my legs, ankles and knees ache so bad this morning and I am walking around like a very old woman!
Yesterday, Katie and I spent the day in London with friends.... the whole day, from dawn 'til dark. We must have walked for miles and miles!

We took the train from Flitwick into London, which was an adventure in itself, as Katie is not used to using public transport and she sees it as real treat! Even the bus, and of course, The Tube, was a source of great enjoyment during the day!

We visited the National History Museum first. We had been there once before with the Cambridge HE group but we were eager to go back, as it was impossible to see everything in just one visit. We didn't get to see everything on this second visit either ; the children wanted to linger at the exhibits soaking everything up like the little sponges they are. Meanwhile, it seemed the many other visitors over-took us, squeezing past, on their tour of the museum. That's something I've noticed... everybody seems to be in such a rush, even at the museum where there is so much to linger over.

The museum was very busy and I noticed lots of groups of school children pouring over the exhibits but then being hurriedly moved on by their teachers to the next exhibit. Some kids weren't ready to move on and had to be called several times before reluctantly joining their class.

That's the beauty of HE... we didn't have or need a time-table, we didn't even know the time! We just wandered wherever the kids led us and made slow but thoroughly enjoyable progress. No rushing here. We almost forgot to stop for lunch, we were enjoying the museum so much! So, we had a late (and delicious) lunch in a quaint French patisserie, when the hunger-pains finally got the better of us!

After lunch we made our way to Kensington, where the girls played in the park, chasing squirrels across the grass which was littered with autumn leaves. I was glad we'd wrapped up warm! The park, like the rest of the city centre, was thronging with people, joggers and dog-walkers. The latter delighted Katie, what with her being such a dog-lover! As always, she recognised all the different breeds and she was delighted to pet lots of friendly dogs. She even threw a ball or two for a beautiful black lab named Freya. Freya had boundless energy.... she would have played with Katie all day had she been allowed!

Exploring Hyde Park


It grew colder and as the sun set, we jumped on a big red bus and made our way to Trafalgar Square, the fountains, monuments, the majestic lions, shopping and the Christmas Lights!

There were people everywhere! The lights were absolutely beautiful and in the theme of the "Twelve Days of Christmas" which was especially lovely, as this is the song Katie has been rehearsing for her Christmas Concert at Moulsoe!

What with the sparkling lights and festive music, the crowds of people wrapped up warm for winter, and the shops filled with the sights and sounds of the season, for the first time this year I felt "Christmassy" (and it's only November yet!)



Trafalgar Square



 


We took the girls to Hamley's toy shop and spent an age looking and touching and "oohing and aahhing!" I even made a start on my Christmas shopping!
Katie had money to spend too, and she treated herself  to a model family of wolves (no surprises there then!)

Later, around 7ish, we went to Nando's for dinner and filled our empty stomachs again.

The day just flew over, and by the time we'd caught the Tube back to St Pancras, jumped on the train and then driven from the station to home, it was nigh on 11pm!
We had been out and about for almost 14 hours!! Ah, that's why my legs don't feel like mine this morning!!

Sunday, 4 November 2012

Halloween Disco Diva!

Katie and I went to a Halloween Disco held at the Forest Centre in nearby Marston Vale. Now Katie doesn't do dancing, so she wasn't too impressed when we first arrived to pounding music and flashing lights. On top of that, we didn't know anyone there, not that it seemed to bother Katie too much. The DJ asked all the kids to the front for competitions and Katie reluctantly made her way onto the dance floor. The music started...... and suddenly Katie came to life! Who knew we had such a disco-diva in our midst?!! You know, Katie never ceases to amaze me ; she is full of lovely surprises!

The disco was great, (which is more then could be said for the buffet!) and Katie danced for two hours solid! She came away with 2 certificates for her dancing efforts and was chuffed to bits! Unfortunately, she couldn't walk the next day!!

Katie dancing her heart out!


Katie's loving her "lessons" at Moulsoe Hall right now. She particularly enjoys the Music and Recorders on Mondays although she has confessed to being nervous about performing "live" at Christmas! She is also doing Science, Art and French at Moulsoe but I suspect she enjoys the play-time in the park afterwards, more than the lessons!

We had planned to go out tonight to watch the Fireworks in Milton Keynes but it has rained solid for days and the thought of wading through muddy fields in freezing temps put us off. And, our house is so warm and cosy, it's hard leaving it when it's so wintery (is that a word?) outside! So we stayed home and wrote letters to friends, watched TV and Dave and Katie played on the PC and then the Wii. They finished off with Dominoes. No prizes for guessing who won!

Dave's still working hard. He must be doing something right as his contract has been extended until Christmas. Katie and I miss him when he's away from home, but we appreciate him all the more when he's home. And I don't tell him enough, but I really do appreciate everything he does for our family. He is a gem.x


Wednesday, 24 October 2012

Matilda Birthday surprise!

I have had a lovely weekend in London with my beautiful daughter Jaime; that was my surprise birthday present!

It is such a long time since we spent time together, just the two of us, so it was extra special!
Our hotel was perfect, the wine and food delicious, and the best bit was the show...... Matilda, at the Cambridge Theatre in Convent Garden.
The show was fantastic! We all love Roald Dahl anyway, and the actors portrayed the story of Matilda beautifully.
Ofcourse, there was time for shopping in London and we didn't come back empty handed! The shops, restaurants and bars were heaving; the streets thronging with people. If there  is a recession, it was difficult to see it in London!

I had the most enjoyable weekend (thankyou Jaime,x) but it was exhausting! Maybe it's just my age!lol.

Sunday, 7 October 2012

Happy Birthday Charlie!!

Today we headed off  to Clacton to celebrate Charlie's first birthday. His official birthday is actually tomorrow but it made sense to have his party today, Sunday, when folk are off work.

The party was great fun, lots of noise,  new toys, a Thomas the Tank Engine cake and a huge birthday balloon! I think Charlie liked being the centre of attention and playing with his baby friends, cousins and Aunty Katie! However, I think he was a little over-whelmed and just a little bit tired by the time it came to blowing out the birthday candle (as you can see from the pic!)

Happy 1st Birthday Charlie!

Monday, 24 September 2012

Another Birthday!

The last few days have been lovely! Jaime, Tony and Charlie came to stay. Charlie is 11 months old now and he is just soooo cuddly cute!

We all went to Gulliver's Land on Saturday. Charlie loved the rides; the faster and higher he went, the more he loved it! Katie was very brave; she rode the roller coasters, rides she had previously refused to try. I think it was down to Jaime encouraging her, and cuddling her in tightly as the train hurtled around the track! Afterwards we ate at Nando's (fast becoming our favourite place to eat).

 


 


Gulliver's Land was so good we planned to return the next day. However the heavens opened all day Sunday, so we went swimming at Oasis instead.
Charlie absolutely loved the water! He is such a lovely baby. He embraces all new experiences with a huge smile!

Today was my birthday. I don't think it's necessary to mention here just how old I am today, suffice to say I am now officially,according to Dave, "middle-aged"!!!



It was a bonus spending my birthday with my gorgeous family. I received some lovely presents from Dave and Katie, and Jaime is treating me to a weekend in London next month. We have tickets to see "Matilda. Lucky me!



Jaime, Tony and Charlie went home this afternoon and as usual I feel so sad. I love it when family come to stay, but I hate it when it's time for them to go; the house suddenly seems too big and so quiet.

Sunday, 16 September 2012

A Nando Birthday!






 We celebrated Dave's "special" birthday with a scrumptious meal at Nando's.






Dave loved his birthday presents which included a new top, cigars, aftershave, PC games, a new gold ring (from me)  and a disgusting amount of chocolate!!


Katie helped blow out the candles and shared in making a wish. Then we tucked into cake!